How Fast Company Confused Ego with Influence

by Amber Naslund View Comments

I’m a Fast Company fan. I’ve been reading for years, and they have some super smart writers and contributors on their team.
But I really think they missed the mark with The Influence Project, in a big way, and confused the idea of “influence” with ego.
To me, influence isn’t about popularity. Or even reach. It’s about [...]

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Learn to Fall…Off Your High Horse

by Amber Naslund View Comments

One byproduct of the beloved two-way conversation of the social web is that we all feel the urge to offer our “feedback”. Because we can, because it’s expected, because how interesting are we if we have nothing to add?
I love the freedom to express and share my viewpoint as much as anyone. But last I [...]

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The Genealogy of Success

by Tamsen McMahon View Comments

Each one of us has gotten ourselves wherever we are. Yes, you’re responsible for every action you take. Yes, you’re responsible for every reaction you have. And yes, your success (or lack thereof) is yours.
But you may ask yourself, well, how did I get here?
I know one thing: you didn’t do it alone.
You are the [...]

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Laugh At Yourself, But Take It Easy

by Amber Naslund View Comments

Making a few jokes at your own expense can be fun. It can break the ice with new acquaintances, get a chuckle from the crowd, show that you don’t take yourself too seriously, all of which can be good things.
Except when they’re not.
There’s a point where self-deprecating humor goes too far, and starts feeling [...]

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How To Be An Expert Without Being An Ass

by Amber Naslund View Comments

I know many of you hate the term “expert”. But we all strive to excel at something, and be perceived as doing so. The trick is how you demonstrate expertise and accomplishment without being christened with titles like “douchebag”. If you’re good at what you do, there are ways to communicate and exemplify your good [...]

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